Toby, our first, born October 12, 2004 is now all grown up. We have recently let him know that he is going to be a big brother very soon. He has been having a little bit of a hard time with it.
We have been talking to him a lot about how now that he is going to be a big brother it is time for him to give up some of his old things and learn to share and be a good example to his new little brother. He is not quite adjusting to the idea yet.
... but after a few days of sulking around the house and some deep thought and contemplation
I think he has turned a corner and really accepted his new role ...